OK, so I am almost up and runig. The problem was (and they dont tell you this in kindergarden) you have to instal ONE stick of ram only, and you have to see which slot it actually works. When it decides to POST, then change the RAM settings in the BIOS. I am by no means a RAM expert, so it took me about 4 tries to get the bios running with all 4 sticks.
Thank god I figured this out before I went shopping, although a newer faster CPU would have been a nice gift

. What I did don't click me was a behemoth of a case at ARLT. Only cost me 32€. Now I have lots of room for all my goodies.
BTW Dekar, how are the hiways in your area? I am supposed to drive up to Waldbröl (close to BONN) on thursday, but I am not too sure if I want to be driving 30-40 kph for most of the drive. A look on the ADAC website shows it all looking pretty sad from würzburg to frankfurt and up.